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Finzi Dottan, R., Goldblatt, H., & Cohen Masica, O. (2012). The experience of motherhood for alienated mothers. Child & Family Social Work, 17(3), 316-325.
Gardner, R.A. (2002). Parental alienation syndrome vs. parental alienation: which diagnosis should evaluators use in child-custody disputes?. American Journal of Family Therapy, 30(2), 93-115.
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Hawkins, A. J., Willoughby, B. J., & Doherty, W. J. (2012). Reasons for divorce and openness to marital reconciliation. Journal of Divorce & Remarriage, 53(6), 453-463.
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Johnston, J. R., & Sullivan, M. J. (2020). Parental alienation: In search of common ground for a more differentiated theory. Family Court Review, 58(2), 270-292.
Kruk, E. (2010). Collateral damage: The lived experiences of divorced mothers without custody. Journal of Divorce & Remarriage, 51(8), 526-543.
Kruk, E. (2018). Parental Alienation as a Form of Emotional Child Abuse: Current State of Knowledge and Future Directions for Research. Family Science Review, 22(4), 141-164
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perspective. Qualitative social work, 1(3), 261-283.
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Vassiliou, D., & Cartwright, G. F. (2001). The lost parents’ perspective on parental alienation syndrome. American Journal of Family Therapy, 29(3), 181-191.
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Von Boch-Galhau, W. (2018). Parental Alienation (Syndrome)-A serious form of psychological child abuse. Ment Health, 13, 725-739.
Warshak, R.A. (2003). Bringing sense to parental alienation: A look at the disputes and the evidence. Family Law Quarterly, 37(2), 273-301.
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Woodall, N., Roje Đapić, M., Woodall, K., & Buljan Flander, G. (2020). PRIKAZ KONFERENCIJE: Treća europska konferencija s međunarodnim sudjelovanjem EAPAP-a-Separacija roditelja, otuđenje i oporavak djeteta: Razvoj standarda dobre prakse. Kriminologija & socijalna integracija: časopis za kriminologiju, penologiju i poremećaje u ponašanju, 28(2), 304-308.
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The role of social support in identity processes and posttraumatic growth: A study of victims of intimate partner violence. Journal of interpersonal violence, 0886260519836785.
Arambašić, L. (2007). Gubitak, tugovanje, podrška. Jastrebarsko: Naklada Slap.
Baker , A. (2006). Patterns of parental alienation syndrome: A qualitative study of adults who were alienated from a parent as a child. The American Journal of Family Therapy, 34(1), 63-78.
Baker, A. J., & Fine, P. (2008). Beyond the high road: Responding to 17 parental alienation strategies without compromising your morals or harming your child. Unpublished manuscript. Preuzeto s: http://www. amyjlbaker.com (3.1.2021.)
Baker, A.J., & Darnall, D. (2006). Behaviors and strategies employed in parental alienation: A survey of parental experiences. Journal of Divorce & Remarriage, 45(1-2), 97-124.
Baker, A.J., Ben-Ami, N. (2011). To turn a child against a parent is to turn a child against himself: The direct and indirect effects of exposure to parental alienation strategies on self-esteem and well-being. Journal of Divorce & Remarriage, 52(7), 472-489.
Beck, A.T., Davis, D.D., & Freeman, A. (2015). Cognitive therapy of personality disorders. New York, London: Guilford Publications.
Bernet, W., Gregory, N., Reay, K. M., & Rohner, R. P. (2018). An objective measure of splitting in parental alienation: The parental acceptance–rejection questionnaire. Journal of forensic sciences, 63(3), 776-783.
Bernet, W., von Boch-Galhau, W., Baker, A. J., & Morrison, S. L. (2010). Parental alienation, dsm-v, and icd-11. The American journal of family therapy, 38(2), 76-187.
Buljan Flander, G., & Roje Đapić, M. (2020). Dijete u središtu (sukoba). Zagreb: Geromar.
Campbell, J. C. (2002). Health consequences of intimate partner violence. The lancet, 359(9314), 1331- 1336.
Creswell, J. W. (2007). Five qualitative approaches to inquiry. Qualitative inquiry and research design: Choosing among five approaches, 2, 53-80.
Dušanić, S. (2007). Religiozna orijentacija i naučena bespomoćnost adolescenata. Centar za kulturni i socijalni popravak.
Evenson, M., & Simone, W. (2005). Alienated parents’ percepctives. Personal Relationships, 62(3), 271-293.
Finzi Dottan, R., Goldblatt, H., & Cohen Masica, O. (2012). The experience of motherhood for alienated mothers. Child & Family Social Work, 17(3), 316-325.
Gardner, R.A. (2002). Parental alienation syndrome vs. parental alienation: which diagnosis should evaluators use in child-custody disputes?. American Journal of Family Therapy, 30(2), 93-115.
Guarnera, L. A., Murrie, D. C., & Boccaccini, M. T. (2017). Why do forensic experts disagree? Sources of unreliability and bias in forensic psychology evaluations. Translational Issues in Psychological Science, 3(2), 143.
Harman, J. J., Kruk, E., & Hines, D. A. (2018). Parental alienating behaviors: An unacknowledged form of family violence. Psychological Bulletin, 144(12), 1275.
Harman, J. J., Leder-Elder, S., & Biringen, Z. (2016). Prevalence of parental alienation drawn from a representative poll. Children and Youth Services Review, 66, 62-66.
Hawkins, A. J., Willoughby, B. J., & Doherty, W. J. (2012). Reasons for divorce and openness to marital reconciliation. Journal of Divorce & Remarriage, 53(6), 453-463.
JL Baker, A. (2020). Reliability and validity of the four factor model of parental alienation. Journal of Family Therapy, 42(1), 100-118.
Johnston, J. R., & Sullivan, M. J. (2020). Parental alienation: In search of common ground for a more differentiated theory. Family Court Review, 58(2), 270-292.
Kruk, E. (2010). Collateral damage: The lived experiences of divorced mothers without custody. Journal of Divorce & Remarriage, 51(8), 526-543.
Kruk, E. (2018). Parental Alienation as a Form of Emotional Child Abuse: Current State of Knowledge and Future Directions for Research. Family Science Review, 22(4), 141-164
Lee Maturana, S., Matthewson, M., Dwan, C., & Norris, K. (2019). Characteristics and experiences of targeted parents of parental alienation from their own perspective: A systematic literature review. Australian Journal of Psychology, 71(2), 83-91.
Lincoln, Y. S., & Guba, E. G. (1990). Judging the quality of case study reports. Internation Journal of Qualitative Studies in Education, 3(1), 53-59.
Lysova, A., Dim, E. E., & Dutton, D. (2019). Prevalence and consequences of intimate partner violence in Canada as measured by the National Victimization Survey. Partner abuse, 10(2), 199-221.
Maier, S. F., & Seligman, M. E. (1976). Learned helplessness: theory and evidence. Journal of experimental psychology: general, 105(1), 3.
Mechanic, M. B., Weaver, T. L., & Resick, P. A. (2008). Mental health consequences of intimate partner abuse: A multidimensional assessment of four different forms of abuse. Violence against women, 14(6), 634-654.
30. Mignon, S. I., Larson, C. J., & Holmes, W. M. (2002). Family abuse: Consequences, theories, and responses. Pearson College Division.
Miralao, V. A. (1997). The family, traditional values and the sodocultural transformation of Philippine socie ty. Philippine Sociological Review, 45(1/4), 189-215.
Moustakas, C. (1994). Phenomenological research methods. Sage publications. 33. Ogden, T. H. (1979). On projective identification. International Journal of Psycho-Analysis, 60, 357-373.
Patton, M. Q. (2002). Two decades of developments in qualitative inquiry: A personal, experiential
perspective. Qualitative social work, 1(3), 261-283.
Poustie, C., Matthewson, M., & Balmer, S. (2018). The forgotten parent: The targeted parent perspective of parental alienation. Journal of Family Issues, 39(12), 3298-3323.
Rivero, S. C. (2012). The relationship between psychological partner aggression and depression: Social support as a moderating variable (Doctoral dissertation).
Roje Đapić, M., Buljan Flander, G., & Galić, R. (2020). Razdvajanje roditelja i otuđenje: Izgubljeni u prijevodu-Operacionalizacija stručne i znanstvene terminologije. Kriminologija & socijalna integracija: časopis za kriminologiju, penologiju i poremećaje u ponašanju, 28(1), 133-141.
Sandler, J. (2018). Projection, identification, projective identification. Routledge.
Scharp, K. M., Hansen, R., Kubler, K. F., & Wang, T. R. (2020). Making meaning of parenting from the perspective of alienated parents. Personal Relationships. (online ed.)
Schwandt, T. A. (2001). Dictionary of qualitative inquiry. In Dictionary of qualitative inquiry (pp. xxxiv-281).
Siegel, J. C., & Langford, J. S. (1998). MMPI-2 validity scales and suspected parental alienation syndrome. American Journal of Forensic Psychology, 16(4), 5-14.
Smart, C. (2000). Divorce and changing family practices in a post-traditional society. Family Matters, 56, 10-19.
Summers, A. (2006). Children’s exposure to domestic violence: A guide to research and resources. Reno, NV: National Council of Juvenile and Family Court Judges.
Tjaden, P. G. (2000). Full report of the prevalence, incidence, and consequences of violence against women: Findings from the National Violence Against Women Survey. US Department of Justice, Office of Justice Programs, National Institute of Justice.
Trocmé, N., & Bala, N. (2005). False allegations of abuse and neglect when parents separate. Child abuse & neglect, 29(12), 1333-1345.
Vassiliou, D., & Cartwright, G. F. (2001). The lost parents’ perspective on parental alienation syndrome. American Journal of Family Therapy, 29(3), 181-191.
Veraa, A. (2009). Child Sexual Abuse: The Sources of Anxiety Making and the Negative Effects. Issues in Child Abuse Accusations, 18(4).
Von Boch-Galhau, W. (2018). Parental Alienation (Syndrome)-A serious form of psychological child abuse. Ment Health, 13, 725-739.
Warshak, R.A. (2003). Bringing sense to parental alienation: A look at the disputes and the evidence. Family Law Quarterly, 37(2), 273-301.
Woodall, K., Woodall, N. (2017). Understanding parental alienation: Learning to cope, helping to heal. Springfiled, Illinois: Charles C Thomas Publisher.
Woodall, N. & Woodall, K. (2019). Working with post-separation induced psychological splitting in children. Paper presented at the Association of Youth & Family Judges and Specialists, and Zagreb Child and Youth Protection Centre seminar at the Teaching Institute for Public Health, Zagreb
Woodall, N., Roje Đapić, M., Woodall, K., & Buljan Flander, G. (2020). PRIKAZ KONFERENCIJE: Treća europska konferencija s međunarodnim sudjelovanjem EAPAP-a-Separacija roditelja, otuđenje i oporavak djeteta: Razvoj standarda dobre prakse. Kriminologija & socijalna integracija: časopis za kriminologiju, penologiju i poremećaje u ponašanju, 28(2), 304-308.
Žukauskienė, R., Kaniušonytė, G., Bergman, L. R., Bakaitytė, A., & Truskauskaitė-Kunevičienė, I. (2019).
The role of social support in identity processes and posttraumatic growth: A study of victims of intimate partner violence. Journal of interpersonal violence, 0886260519836785.
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Roje Đapić, M., Buljan Flander, G., & Raguž, A. (2021). Alienated Parents’ Experiences - Other Side Perspective. Psychotherapy in Achieving Health and Well-Being for Children and Young People, 4(4), 13-32. Retrieved from https://journal.bhidapa.ba/index.php/bhidapa/article/view/25
Alienated Parents’ Experiences - Other Side Perspective
Vol 4 No 4 (2021)
Submitted: Dec 13, 2021
Published: Dec 13, 2021
Abstract
Alienated / targeted parents are a relatively neglected population in scientific and practical terms, although it is estimated that more than 10% of parents experience or have experienced this form of domestic violence. Few studies to date have shown serious consequences for their mental health of with the perception of insufficient system support. The aim of this paper is to deeply explore the experiences and emotions of alienated / targeted parents before, during and after separation / divorce, stressing their cooperation with institutions and their needs in Croatia, given that no such research has been conducted in the region yet. Based on in-depth interviews with 17 alienated / targeted parents, this paper provides an overview of their experiences: (a) the influences of primary families; (b) unclear circumstances of the termination of the romantic relationship; (c) false accusations of violence; (d) the path to helplessness; (e) reflection on other aspects of life; and (f) needs by the system.